KIND WORDS
In some earlier posts I wrote about things I did not want to hear anymore. Chief among them was "I am so sorry for your loss." It is said so many times by so many different people that it no longer has any real meaning or impact. It seems like a rote comment similar to what we say when people ask how we are and the answer is "fine." However, today something happened that reminded me that there are words that can soothe and comfort event 8.5 years later when it is clear they are thoughtful and considered. I was spending some time with a woman friend I am just getting to know. During the course of our time together she was sharing something she is working on with me and I had the opportunity to tell her a little about Ned's passion for model trains and my knowledge of them from having spent 45 years with someone who was obsessive about it. When we talked about the trains she just listened and asked questions and commented that she appreciated that I knew som